Monday, December 10, 2007

Is Sex A Proof Of Love?

Sex is probably the most important three letter word on the earth today. I doubt if anyone can deny this fact. Although some people try to deny its importance due to traditional, religious or moral reasons, yet it's obvious to the discerning eye to see that it's very important.

Research has shown that sex or porn sells the most online, next to gambling. It's as important as money in anyone's life. Yet, the power of sex has been much misunderstood and ultimately misused. Some people tend to believe that their sexual lives can be separate from their emotional lives. This false image is portrayed by some people in the media, via movies, describing this people as supermen or superwomen who have sex with absolutely no strings attached and no emotions involved.

The problem with this false image is this-it does not fit into the reality of the lives of multiplied millions of people worldwide who need both sex and love. Having sex with a person is not a proof of love, as many examples around us show. Sex is meant to be a natural outflow of love, not a flow apart from love.

This false image of sex as a separate entity from love is behind the marriage disasters being experienced by almost all of the same people who portray that same image. If sex were the same thing as love, Hollywood would be the happiest place on earth, and all film star marriages would be the most blissful and enviable. But you and I know that this is not the case.

Sex and love are tied together. It's all part of our emotions, and no one must be deceived into believing the false images that are being portrayed. It's harming more and more ordinary people and damaging their emotions.

You should not view sex as a tool or just an object that doesn't involve you in any way, or which you can control as you wish. Rather, it's a commitment, giving a part of you to someone else.

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