Being single could be a lonely time in one's life. But despite what that period means, you can make something out of your loneliness, rather than allowing it to weigh you down. Deep down within us, we all long to meet that special someone, who makes our life complete. However, before you meet that special one, you can still make your life meaningful.
First, you must realise that you are special. It's not that special one that you are waiting for that makes you special, but the fact that you are whom you are--eligible and ready for a relationship. Having a special someone cannot make you special, or bring you a sense of worth. What makes you really special is your belief in yourself.
Secondly, you must discover your purpose in life. Many people live all their lives without ever knowing why they are alive or what they are living for. No one is made to live a purposeless life. You will only find fulfilment when you discover your reason for being in this world. You must search within yourself to know what you really want to do, what makes you happy, what your talents and abilities are. That is what will bring you true fulfilment, even if that special person is not in your life yet.
Thirdly, you need to develop a giving attitude. Marriage is not a fifty-fifty arrangement. It takes total commitment if it’s going to work out. Part of the reason why modern marriages don’t work is that both parties or one of them enters into it with a fifty percent mentality. If you develop a giving attitude as a single, and you are happy with it, you will find it easy to be committed to making your marriage in future to work out.
As any one who has been married knows very well, marriage doesn’t change you. It only exposes whom you really are. It’s time you faced that reality and start living as a happy single now.
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Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Monday, December 10, 2007
Is Sex A Proof Of Love?
Sex is probably the most important three letter word on the earth today. I doubt if anyone can deny this fact. Although some people try to deny its importance due to traditional, religious or moral reasons, yet it's obvious to the discerning eye to see that it's very important.
Research has shown that sex or porn sells the most online, next to gambling. It's as important as money in anyone's life. Yet, the power of sex has been much misunderstood and ultimately misused. Some people tend to believe that their sexual lives can be separate from their emotional lives. This false image is portrayed by some people in the media, via movies, describing this people as supermen or superwomen who have sex with absolutely no strings attached and no emotions involved.
The problem with this false image is this-it does not fit into the reality of the lives of multiplied millions of people worldwide who need both sex and love. Having sex with a person is not a proof of love, as many examples around us show. Sex is meant to be a natural outflow of love, not a flow apart from love.
This false image of sex as a separate entity from love is behind the marriage disasters being experienced by almost all of the same people who portray that same image. If sex were the same thing as love, Hollywood would be the happiest place on earth, and all film star marriages would be the most blissful and enviable. But you and I know that this is not the case.
Sex and love are tied together. It's all part of our emotions, and no one must be deceived into believing the false images that are being portrayed. It's harming more and more ordinary people and damaging their emotions.
You should not view sex as a tool or just an object that doesn't involve you in any way, or which you can control as you wish. Rather, it's a commitment, giving a part of you to someone else.
Would you like to know the secrets of how you can succeed in online dating? Would you like to get a date online without any troubles? Visit http://www.mylovesworld.com for a FREE ebook that unveils the secrets.
Research has shown that sex or porn sells the most online, next to gambling. It's as important as money in anyone's life. Yet, the power of sex has been much misunderstood and ultimately misused. Some people tend to believe that their sexual lives can be separate from their emotional lives. This false image is portrayed by some people in the media, via movies, describing this people as supermen or superwomen who have sex with absolutely no strings attached and no emotions involved.
The problem with this false image is this-it does not fit into the reality of the lives of multiplied millions of people worldwide who need both sex and love. Having sex with a person is not a proof of love, as many examples around us show. Sex is meant to be a natural outflow of love, not a flow apart from love.
This false image of sex as a separate entity from love is behind the marriage disasters being experienced by almost all of the same people who portray that same image. If sex were the same thing as love, Hollywood would be the happiest place on earth, and all film star marriages would be the most blissful and enviable. But you and I know that this is not the case.
Sex and love are tied together. It's all part of our emotions, and no one must be deceived into believing the false images that are being portrayed. It's harming more and more ordinary people and damaging their emotions.
You should not view sex as a tool or just an object that doesn't involve you in any way, or which you can control as you wish. Rather, it's a commitment, giving a part of you to someone else.
Would you like to know the secrets of how you can succeed in online dating? Would you like to get a date online without any troubles? Visit http://www.mylovesworld.com for a FREE ebook that unveils the secrets.
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