Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Being a Happy Single

Being single could be a lonely time in one's life. But despite what that period means, you can make something out of your loneliness, rather than allowing it to weigh you down. Deep down within us, we all long to meet that special someone, who makes our life complete. However, before you meet that special one, you can still make your life meaningful.
First, you must realise that you are special. It's not that special one that you are waiting for that makes you special, but the fact that you are whom you are--eligible and ready for a relationship. Having a special someone cannot make you special, or bring you a sense of worth. What makes you really special is your belief in yourself.
Secondly, you must discover your purpose in life. Many people live all their lives without ever knowing why they are alive or what they are living for. No one is made to live a purposeless life. You will only find fulfilment when you discover your reason for being in this world. You must search within yourself to know what you really want to do, what makes you happy, what your talents and abilities are. That is what will bring you true fulfilment, even if that special person is not in your life yet.
Thirdly, you need to develop a giving attitude. Marriage is not a fifty-fifty arrangement. It takes total commitment if it’s going to work out. Part of the reason why modern marriages don’t work is that both parties or one of them enters into it with a fifty percent mentality. If you develop a giving attitude as a single, and you are happy with it, you will find it easy to be committed to making your marriage in future to work out.
As any one who has been married knows very well, marriage doesn’t change you. It only exposes whom you really are. It’s time you faced that reality and start living as a happy single now.

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